When does one become old enough, not to miss their parent..

When does one become old enough, to stop grieving for the loss of their parent..

When does one become old enough, to accept that life is uncertain.. and definitely not eternal..

When does one become old enough, to accept that all life is mortal..

I am 51...not old enough

But old enough to accept, that it is loss of  a relationship I am grieving for.

Also, petty as it might seem... am grieving for  a loss...that which was taken away from me!